[that is all very....dramatic. jon presses his lips together, clenches and unclenches his burned hand. he knows he has a tendency to speak out of turn. he had hoped he could have a more honest relationship with daenerys than with stannis bloody baratheon.]

I should have responded privately, and I am sorry I didn't. I will be certain to do so going forward.

[a pause.]

Because it is important to you, and you have asked me. You cannot expect the same of every person here. And if you dismiss them or speak harshly, you risk giving offense. I would say as much to any Stark here.

[truth be told he would probably call robb a dumbass in so many words.]