I never said you were. I don’t know what you’re like, yet.

[He chews at the leaves, and the bits of vegetable, all sweet and crunchy.]

But you made us cups of tea. You made us salads. [Which means, his tone implies, points in her favor: she did him a kindness.]

You didn’t bring me here to make me bow to you. You brought me because you wanted me to ask what you wanted. So tell me: what is it that you want?