dragonwarder | (no subject)

He was searching for your approval and validation.
That is the reason.

[She can also guess why Rey kept them, but she's not going to drag her as bad as she's taken to dragging Kylo.]

I guess so.
I didn't say anything about it.

[ should!!??? She???? Doesn't sex imply approval in this situation. ]

An acceptable response.
Men take pride in the size of their cocks.
They can measure them with each other, if that is their desire.

That's not true, is it?
Taking pride in its size.

[ don't ask, dany. just. don't. ]

Their cocks are what they speak of most.
I doubt you will ever get a man to admit it to you directly.
But I tell true.

I guess that makes sense why he wanted to prove his point to Daisy.

[ so there's that. but it's clearly at odds with-- ]

Why is that worth bragging about?
It's inconvenient, isn't it? I mean, it could hurt. Or not fit.
I bet that's a thing that happens a lot to people with big cocks.

[So this conversation is happening now. Dany actually has to stop and think if she wants to answer Rey's unasked question. It's not as if she doesn't have the wisdom to offer -- she was small, and Drogo was. Quite large.]

It will always fit, with the right preparation.

Most men do not know a thing of a woman's body.
They imagine that because they are larger, they will provide more pleasure to their partner as a result.
But without preparation, yes, it will hurt.
Quite a lot.

So they're just bragging about not knowing how to satisfy a woman.

[ that's the important takeaway that she has now that she can set aside yes it's perfectly fine and normal that it took time and effort to make it fit without discomfort. ]

I suppose so.
You will have to ask Kylo Ren.

[status: dying of trying not to laugh.]

He doesn't have that problem.

[ like her bar isn't super high, admittedly, and he lasted like 2 seconds, but she can at least give him that much. she was satisfied. ]

Oh?
I shall make note, should he ever come knocking on my door.

[She does not imagine he will. Nor does she plan to take him up on that offer.]

I wasn't recommending a restaurant.

[ just to be clear. are they poly in westeros??? she doesn't know so she's just being clear. ]

[she just has minimal romantic feelings tied to sex at this point in her life. sue her.]

Nor was I pursuing recommendations.

[#justsaying]

Just as long as we're clear.
Uh. Thanks.

I am glad the knowledge can be of use to others.

[Seeing as she locked the woman who originally taught her all of it in an impenetrable vault to die and such.]

Knowledge?
Oh. Actually, I figured that out on my own.

[ affirmation though, sure. rey doesn't have a word for that. ]

I just meant your patience.
You could have stopped responding.

[ she hasn't talked about this with, well, anyone. poe seems tacitly aware. that's it. ]

I typically reserve cold dismissal for those whom have not broken bread with me before.

[Which is probably the most formal way anyone could ever say "that's because I like you, dingus".]

I also find no value in guarding such information from other women.

I haven't had a lot of experience sharing this kind of information.

[ women or otherwise. so it means something, anyway. ]

Daisy always seems to make fun of me.

[This message takes a while to come over.]

I prefer to speak freely in all things, whenever possible.
None of us were brought into the world with knowledge, and knowledge can easily be weaponized.
I have seen how easily and freely others like to make their own use of others' sexual ignorance and innocence.

I prefer my friends and allies to be armed against such malevolence, if they are willing to seek my council.

So you don't mind giving council?

[ rey for the past forever: pls someone mentor me i need an adult to help me understand things
adults in rey's life: HA HA HA FIGURE IT OUT YOURSELF
dany: ~hello it's me you're looking for

except it's just like ... about sex and stuff. not the force. ]

I mean, Kylo's not malevolent. Not about this.
He could stand to be more, actually.

[ but they're just both nervous virgins. ]

On the condition that you do the same, should another woman seek you out.
Yes.

[Somehow that doesn't surprise her. But she doesn't say that. She also chooses not to nitpick over Rey's choice of phrase regarding malevolence, though she feels herself rising in a strong desire to.]

You may find he will not be the only one who seeks you out.
Nor the only one you may want in that way.
But that is for you to discover and decide.

[Briefly, she feels something in her chest seize. She had been marching forward for so long that she did not realize how much she missed her companions until that very moment.

So she marches forward again.]

If you ever have a question, ask.

Yeah, I will. Of course.

[ Rey would never withhold help if she could give it. It's just hard to imagine anyone seeking her out for that. She's not exactly known for her social graces. Plus, it's hard to hear what Dany says about others. She'd gone this long without anyone interested in her. Without being interested in anyone. It feels ... settled, in a way.

Maybe that's just how everyone feels. ]

I do have a question.
I don't want you to think just because I have a question means I sent those pictures, though. I didn't.

Truth be told, I do not much care if you did or did not.
It is hardly the most offensive missive I have received.

Ask.

How do you keep from choking?

[ she tried to find a more delicate way to say this for 2 seconds ok and then she abandoned ship like nope just gonna go for it directly just like her preexisting strategy for giving head. ]

[Huh. She just went right for it. And Dany has to consider if she's actually as true as she says she is.

But whatever its just dicks.]

Practice.
Holding your tongue flat and still.

It might be difficult regardless, with a cock that size.
Mouths do not stretch half as well.